Chocolate and sleep. Right now, those are the two things I want most of all. Because being exhausted due to sleep regressions isn’t any fun. Yay… /yawn.
Thankfully, though, this isn’t our first time experiencing the joys of a sleep regression. Given that baby girl is our 4th child, we’ve been around the block a few times. Even so, each of our children’s sleep regressions has hints of individuality to it. So it’s still good practice to review (or learn, if this is your first kiddo!) how to survive a sleep regression, no matter the age.
How to survive a sleep regression: from birth to 12 months old
Okay, so there’s more than one sleep regression in this range. There’s typically several:
- Between 3-5 months (ours usually happened at 4 months)
- Somewhere between 7-9 months (my kids all seemed to have theirs at about 8 months)
- Between 10-12 months (for us, it’s an 11-month sleep regression)
- And again at about 2 years of age
Now, if you’re lucky enough to have babies who actually slept in the first place, here’s the good news: sleep regressions are short and survivable. They’re usually only a week or two long, provided you patiently and lovingly stick to your schedule and tough it out.
On the other hand, if you had kids like mine who wouldn’t sleep unless held, well, sleep regressions are less fun. They’ll still insist on being held. Oh – and they’ll still wake up a lot more often.
Basically, you and the sleep regressed kid will be even more exhausted than usual. It’s all good, though. Because we’ve got moms with some great ideas to make any and all sleep regressions more livable/survivable.
1: True Aim – 5 Ways to Help Your Newborn Sleep. Her advice includes burping baby a ton and sticking to a schedule!
2: Today’s Parnet – How to survive your baby’s four-month sleep regression gives several more stories from moms surviving sleep regressions. One mom even leaves a note, warning her neighbors, of what’s going on.
4: Here’s how I survived my youngest son’s 11 month old sleep regression.
Consistency, naps, and early bedtimes are the key during that first year. Especially as those kiddos outgrow naps, y’all.
Surviving nap transitions and sleep regression tips for toddlers
Now, once your child turns 1, you’re generally in the “nap transition” phase. In fact, your child may already have given up one of their earlier naps each day.
My oldest two kids thought they were done napping by 12 months – and by 18 months, they were definitely done. (You can cry for me, it’s okay – but we survived!)
Sometimes they’d nap a few times here and there. But by 18 months, like I said, there were zero naps – not even in the car. So it’s even more important to focus on routine, no matter what time of year it is.
5: SAHM Plus – 11 Terrific Tricks You Need to Get Baby to Sleep. Remember that early bedtimes are key!
But if nothing else seems to be working, focus on survival, tacos, chocolate, getting as much sleep as possible, and praying.
6: The Good Mama – The 5 Stages of Toddler Night Waking. Her point that a lack of sleep begets a further lack of sleep is spot on!
7: Candle in the Night – Surviving Sleep Regression. She recommends going with the flow – and asking for help!
Keep at it, friends. It may take some time, trying different bedtime routines, and some less-than-gentle reminders that the kids need to “just go to sleep!”, but eventually, they will sleep. Hopefully. Just remember that bedtime is a nightly struggle/routine. And that sleep issues aren’t just for kids.Bedtime can be a nightly struggle/routine. It may take some time, trying different bedtime routines, and some prayer, but eventually, they will sleep. Hopefully. Oh - and these tips will help, too.
Surviving sleep problems as an adult
Getting adequate sleep is also important for us adults. So for our last look at surviving sleep regressions, let’s be sure to help ourselves, shall we?
That way, whether we just need help recovering from our kid’s sleep regressions or we seem to be having our own adult sleep regression, we’ll be ready to get back to the healing sleep we need.
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- Make sure that you’re keeping screens off before bedtime. That light messes with your brain – and your sleep!
- Keep your bedroom for sleep – and make it a sleep-friendly environment.
- Go to bed and wake up at regular times as much as possible.
- Use this loopless white noise machine to help you drift off to sleep.
- Hang blackout curtains to block out distracting lights at night.
- Use meditation or these relaxation techniques to help your mind know how to let go of stress and anxiety each night so that you can sleep.
More on sleep, sleep regressions, and schedules:
- 8 Tips to Conquer the 4-Month Sleep Regression
- Sleep Regressions: Everything You Need To Know and Ages They Happen
- How to Handle a Nap Regression (at any age)
- 11 Terrific Tips You Need to Get Baby to Sleep
- Why is Sleep So Important? Research Shows These Results
My must-have sleep resources:
- Want to see all of my favorite sleep products in one spot? Check them out right here.
- Need a great resource for sleep training your kiddos? Get Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child by Marc Weissbluth, MD
- Want help figuring things out? Try The Sleep Sense Program’s Free Sleep Assessment.
- Make life sleepier – use this loopless white noise machine and/or a fan in the room.
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- Say Goodnight to Sleep Regressions: my Ultimate Bedtime Checklist
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- How to Handle a Nap Regression (at any age)
- How to Get an Overtired 11-Month-Old to Sleep
- The 2 Types of Infant Sleep Changes You Need to Know About
Okay, wow. After all that talk about sleep, naps, and chocolate, I think I need all of the above. How about you? What helps you and your kids sleep better each night?